Comment on So you grew up with a dad who didn’t know how to express love? Here’s how it could be affecting you today by Ramie.
I have the same situation with my husband and daughter. I know my husband loves his daughter but gets so angry when he is not the center of her universe. She is in college and trying to live her life and find out who she is but he can’t seem to accept it. He feels that she no longer loves him and he is horrible with his feelings. I too feel that maybe I should have left him a few years ago and that would have been better for everyone. It is starting to make me resent and even have ill feelings for my husband. How can I be with someone who behaves this way with his children? He seriously was the best father with both kids until the kids started to have lives of their own. I just don’t know what to do. I know it’s ok to be mad at each other once in a while but to show no feelings and play the pity game is too much. I can’t take it any more!!
