Comment on So you grew up with a dad who didn’t know how to express love? Here’s how it could be affecting you today by Chacha.
My daughter and her dad are not getting along. My daughter, 30++, says that he is not considerate, she does not feel that he values her at all as she managed to be very successful in life without our financial support. Her dad is angry because she expresses her feelings clearly and he has done financially well for himself as well. He thinks that my daughter considers him as a not good father, because he told her that he does not like her acquaintances as he calls them “snobs” and because of her way of living (not saving for the future).
To make the story short, I am between, very stressed, very nervous.. I can’t stand the situation among those two and I love them equally. My daughter did not speak to us for a few months and now she is back. My husband doesn’t want to see her around until she apologises to him and the rest of us (other siblings, we’re all talking to her again with no apologies) only tells her off and can care less if she is alive or not…at least that’s what he says for now.
My husband complains to me and gives me ultimatums like “she is not welcome to my house”. My daughter doesn’t talk about it… This problem started since my daughter went to college and now has escalated this far. Before that, her and him get along very well.
